I recently started having sex with someone who has a much smaller dick than anyone I’ve had sex with in the past and would love some tips and perspective from guys that have this lived experience. I really want to ensure my partner is enjoying the sex we have to the best of my ability and am trying to educate myself and step up my game. I have googled extensively and that has helped a lot but I am specifically curious on the below. Overall: Men with a smaller than average or very smaller than average dick - is there anything you would want your partners to know? Is there anything you’d ask for but don’t know how or is hard to ask for? Vaginal sex: What are some good positions that you like? I want to make sure I’m not missing any obvious ones. Grinding vs thrusting - something I’ve read is to focus on grinding once he’s in vs thrusting or if I’m on top, me fucking myself on him. I’m so curious what this feels like. I have a strong pelvic floor and when I’m cumming hard can easily push ppl out. Which I could imagine might be frustrating especially of penetration isn’t the easiest? Curious for any perspective or tips with say better positions on that. I really like fisting, and was wondering if anyone has experience with vaginal stretching and a smaller dick. Is it easier or harder if your partner is stretched out? What else should I know or consider? Am I missing anything? Anal sex: I have a fat ass and I’m not really sure how easy it would be for a shorter dick to fuck me effectively. Like if my cheeks were held open, is it possible to hold them open enough that his hips could get close enough to my body to get a few inches in me? Really curious about anyone else’s experience and thoughts on this. I will also not that PinV sex is not the only way for me and my partner to have fun! I love oral and so may other things so am not worried about having good sex, more-so trying to figure out how we can make penetration work the easiest since we both like that. I’m also so happy to talk to him about all of this but really value other’s perspective. Thanks for reading and replying! submitted by /u/Zealousideal-Bus7057
Originally posted by u/Zealousideal-Bus7057 on r/AskMen