Me [M30] and my friend [M30] were staying at a casino and while sitting on the couch of a bar, a group of three women approached us to flirt. They told us they were there for one of the girl’s birthdays and she was looking to hopefully find a couple guys to join them for sex in their hotel room. One of the girls sat on my lap and we were chatting and she said “Most of the white guys I see in porn are usually small” and I said “Yeah, thats the case with me too” so I decided at that point to let them know I probably wasn’t the kind of guy they were looking for. I am the “statistical average” when it comes to size which is lower than the sexually active average. These women were here for a special occassion and were clearly looking to have a special sexual experience. I mean I was definitely dressed the part, I look fairly masculine so I can see why they would think I wouldn’t be a bad option but unfortunately thats not the case. They were only there for a few days and they drove quite a distance. I would feel terrible to lie to them or say that I am biologically masculine and then waste their time. My friend thinks this is ridiculous and that I am missing out on opportunities. He said that I should have talked a big game and once they are in the room they are going to have sex whether i’m big or small. But to me that seems similar to not disclosing you are trans before having sex with someone. They had the expectation of having sex with a man but thats not what they got. I find it deceitful and I would live with a lot of guilt. I was curious if you think it was honest of me or if my friend is right? And that isn’t including the potential psychological damage of having to have sex with a small penis person but I don’t think most people think about that aspect of it. I don’t believe anyone on the small side of average or below can be loved at a biological level, personally. But would appreciate any thoughts. submitted by /u/Zealousideal_Hour342
Originally posted by u/Zealousideal_Hour342 on r/AskGirls
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