Serious question because it is started to ache my heart due to how bad it is becoming. I truly don’t know how to be friends with women at all. Not that, I act like they are trying to date me or they are different. But I tend to overthink it I notice. I dont know how to text and how to not send the wrong signals. For example, a girl text me “miss you” so I text back “miss you too” we will have to catch up. She just liked it. Saw her in person and she acted very standoffish. I kinda got hurt because I wasn’t trying to hit on her but I think she felt that way due to how standoffish she was. Now I stop texting her because I don’t want to send the wrong message. We were kinda causal friends and I miss talking to her. We actually text on and off at least 50 times Then there are other women I meet, where I ask questions and I don’t come off wierd. They will give me their number. I don’t use it because I see them alot in class or I don’t know what to text about. Next thing I know they call me fake and give me the cold shoulder. For example, I saw this woman who haven’t since last semester in the library. I said it was nice to see you and hug her. She told me I have to go because I’m about to take my exam. I was told today by her friend that she felt like I was a bit fake. I dont have these problems with guys even though I act the same. I haven’t talk to some of my guys friends in months. They are ok with it so I’m curious what it is. Any help will be appreciated submitted by /u/earthbound36784
Originally posted by u/earthbound36784 on r/AskMen