My bf has only just realised he’s a porn addiction. He’s stopped porn since 3 years ago but started watched sexual content on YT behind my back. We talked about how I was uncomfortable, he kept watching them and I was in the dark for 3 years. I only just found out 2 days ago that he was still watching videos of girls in revealing clothes last year. Some of these videos are just girls vlogging with tank tops. Revealing, yes. Sexualising, no. But he didn’t see the difference. We were in LDR until 2 months ago, so he can’t recall if he was disciplined enough to stop by himself or us moving in together made him stop. But he acknowledged that he was bored and needed sexual stimulation. My mind tho……? I can’t stop think he’s filling in a void of us being apart and his desire for nicer bodies than mine. He’s seeking therapy. But our sex life still suffers. To those who recovered/are recovering, what advice can you give me? submitted by /u/paperbagwhore
Originally posted by u/paperbagwhore on r/AskMen