Original Reddit post

I have these emotions and I wanna talk about them, and if I’m weird for thinking this way? So I’m 17m and for some reason when a guy or girl loves someone, and something happens that ends their relationship and they have to move on, be it betrayal or falling out of love because of circumstance, reality or fiction, I always feel bad. I mean am I putting my self in that persons shoes am I being empathetic or am I being selfish, I don’t want to see them sad, but I also can see the pov of the other person who leaves, I might not be the type to move on if my partner dies, but I can understand why people do. I mean in my future I don’t want my wife to be stuck on me if I die, it’s going to hurt me to think about her moving on but it’s for the better, and I know she’ll always love me. So I wanna know is this bad and if so how do I change it? submitted by /u/OtakuDaiVeion

Originally posted by u/OtakuDaiVeion on r/AskMen