I’m not asking in terms of how much more sex you’re getting (I assume more than before, but do share that as well), I’m asking what’s it like to fuck ? I recently had sex for the first time in a little under a year and in the last year I gained ~20 kilograms (which on my weight, which was already well above the normal level…) and I couldn’t fuck. I felt like I was slipping out of her, I felt like I couldn’t fuck in any pose, also during the sex I was more concerned about the fact that I’m sweating and have trouble keeping it up legit because I’m too focused on actually doing the motions to fuck, I was also going flaccid because I was worried whether she’s enjoying because I’m morbidly obese (it’s an old friend that I hooked up 2 years ago and she asked me recently if I was down, I turned her down originally cause I was afraid of this exact thing happening) Dnno right now I’m feeling like becoming a monk and going on a long journey of trying to become completely asexual cause my balls were literally loaded and I was fucking someone I find attractive and I was going flaccid inside of her and had trouble fucking her longer than 30 seconds (I was 2 minutes in and I was literally dying, not to mention I wasn’t even feeling any pleasure from it, was like my dick is just placed somewhere wet and that’s it), my confidence has been shattered because I figured I was at least horny so that would make a difference, nope… I legit feel like I should’ve just jerked off at home and be done with it. I know I need to lose weight and I’m really trying this time, but man this set me back mentally so far back and I’m feeling super bad rn. submitted by /u/answerencr
Originally posted by u/answerencr on r/AskMen
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