Hey lads, as a woman growing up I’ve never had any men asked me out in public and social settings (bars, parties, clubs, etc). I’m 24, in decent shape, might be on the taller side but I don’t consider myself bad looking. I tend to dress modest but also very feminine. I have plenty of great friends, which I guess that indicates I don’t have a bad personality either (hopefully). Im starting to wondering if it’s my problem or am I missing anything. I’m wondering if there are any hints that I can give a man that make him more comfortable to approach me? I would really appreciate some actual tips; Something like back in the Victorian ages ‘drop the handkerchief so a gentleman may pick it up ’ but applies in 2026 submitted by /u/leonatoi
Originally posted by u/leonatoi on r/AskMen
