Original Reddit post

So, I’m (24M) friends with a couple (23F and 23M). For whatever reason, when she’s drunk she likes to talk about their sex life. The other day she told me how she was impressed with my friend’s stamina since he can go for 1 or even 2 hours without an orgasm. Honestly, I found it very odd. Whenever I have sex with someone who I’m in a relationship with, I can go around 5-10 minutes before finishing for the first time. Sometimes even less, which I don’t really mind since I don’t go soft after orgasm unless I completely stop it I’m not into it. But when I’m just hooking up with someone who maybe I’m not necessarily really attracted to or love, I can go for around 30 minutes or even more. So my question is, is it actually normal to go that long with someone you’re supposed to love and be attracted to? I’m think what’s “healthy” is around 15 minutes, so… I dunno. Maybe it’s just me since I’m able to enjoy to the fullest without worrying about going soft, so I completely let go and just enjoy. submitted by /u/Prudent-Surround-243

Originally posted by u/Prudent-Surround-243 on r/AskMen