I (17F) started talking to a guy recently and I feel like I’m getting attached really fast, which is making me nervous. We’ve been talking for about a week and we message every day on Snapchat. He usually starts conversations after I react to his snaps, sends face pics, and tells me goodnight, so I feel like he’s interested. He seems really sweet and I honestly like him a lot already. The problem is that I feel like I’m bad at the “talking stage.” Sometimes I want to talk to him a lot, but then I randomly get in these moods where I become really dry even though I still like him and want to talk. I’m worried it might make it seem like I’m not interested. I’m also wondering when it’s appropriate to ask if this is actually going somewhere. I don’t want to ask too early and scare him off, but I also don’t want to waste time if he’s not serious. Another thing I worry about is that we only talk on Snapchat, so I sometimes wonder if he’s talking to a lot of other girls too. For people who have been in situations like this: • How do you handle getting attached too quickly in the early talking stage? • When is a good time to ask if someone sees things going somewhere? • And if two people are interested in each other, how do you avoid “fumbling” it and actually build a relationship? Any advice would help. submitted by /u/Inevitable-Tap-7471
Originally posted by u/Inevitable-Tap-7471 on r/AskMen
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