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EDIT I am truly overwhelmed with all your super helpful comments, advise and support! I guess this is what true brotherhood means in a sort of way. I will work on improving myself for my own sake and not to achieve some ideal “man” status. Thank you all so much! ORIGINAL Hello fellow men! I’ll be turning 30 in a few months, and if I have to be honest I’ve never felt like a man my whole life (not in terms of gender). I always feel like I’ve been kind of a wuss/pussy. I’ve always had very few guy friends, always and still have more gal pals. I also think part of it might be because I am overweight / might have low testosterone (this is self diagnosed) and don’t think I’ve always been a straight guy. I also have been and currently am dealing with stress, anxiety, ocd etc :/ I want to experience true male brotherhood once. Seeking your advice bros as I turn 30 soon. How do I become a man? submitted by /u/Safe_Athlete1365

Originally posted by u/Safe_Athlete1365 on r/AskMen