I didnt know how to exactly word this question so i’ll give more context. Im not exactly a loser, im pretty popular amongst guy-only circles and i had a girlfriend for a brief period of time. But im not gonna act like im satisfied with my social life. In early highschool i still acted like a kid and in late highschool my friendgroup was guys-only with almost no chances to meet with girls. I made enough “life long friends” and im not interested in the male bond anymore since i already got my bros. When i enter college i wanna be a part of a more sexually diverse social circle with more opporunities, more partying and generally a more loose environment. Im tired of the drama that comes with isolated friendgroups. I wanna be in a social circle where new people are introduced in every meet up, where you dont gotta worry about who feels what about you, where i can get in a relationship without creating chaos in the friendgroup. I know communities like this exist. Maybe what im saying sounds like “i dont care about true friendship and i just wanna sleep around” but thats not the case. As i mentioned, i already made many tight friendships already and now i wanna experience a no-strings-attached social circle where i’ll get to meet women and be popular. So i ask again, has anyone here ever turned their life around like that? submitted by /u/Smart_Anything_9376
Originally posted by u/Smart_Anything_9376 on r/AskMen