My boyfriend and are in a good relationship, he takes very good care of me and he’s very great with making me feel special and putting effort in when it comes to special occasions as well. He used to be bad at knowing what to do if I’m upset or sad and would freeze up but he is getting a lot better with this, we talk about our future sometimes but the conversation about our future is always prompted by me. I had multiple conversations with him and communicated how sad it makes me feel that he never really is the one to prompt a conversation about our future together and he always says he’ll do better and he’ll work on it but nothing comes out of it. I asked if he’s really serious about our future together and if he even want a future with me and he says yhh but when I ask him why he doesn’t do it then he just tells me he doesn’t know why, it’s making me really sad that in our 4 years of relationships he has never been the one to prompt a conversation with me about our future. I guess I want to ask guys on here if they could give me more perspective on why my boyfriend might not want to bring up talking about our future together. submitted by /u/Capszod
Originally posted by u/Capszod on r/AskMen