My (42F) boyfriend (42M) and I were sortof joking around while I was trying to get him more awake. To be fair, he works long hours at a physically demanding job, so, I did suggest “You can lay there and I rub on you” and he said he wants to be more awake; it wouldn’t be right. I said “you would be willing if more awake so even if mostly asleep we can still have sex”. He did wake up more, but this did have us talk about “what if another time…?” I said I am a light sleeper and would wake up. He said I should always try to wake him up first, and that I should be naked or in lingerie, to make what is going on very clear–not waking him up to danger or anything… Which got me wondering though, how many men (at least willing to answer this) would allow their partners to get off on them while they slept. I will read all comments, I just may not respond to many. I do thank you in advance for all of your answers, and time 🙂 submitted by /u/MarigoldMouna
Originally posted by u/MarigoldMouna on r/AskMen