A few of my personal experiences as examples:
- I went out with a female friend (felt like a hang out to me, but looking back it did feel date-ish) first year of college. I think she was into me, I has suspicions but I think around the same time I met and became interested in someone else instead
- Met someone this past fall in my last semester of a program in my city, but now living farther from where we met. (Still in city). We are friendly but neither of us talked to each other outside that much. Haven’t talked to her since New Years.
- Met someone during my first semester of my MS program. The night after we met, I managed to snag a matcha date with her the next day but after it, I never took her out. I feel like I was overthinking things just because she said she loves to do and explore things on her own, which I interpreted as her not looking for a relationship. We stayed friends the entire duration of the program but I feel like I could’ve made a move just to try. Now she’s back home on the opposite side of the country and unless I get a job in her coast it’s prob gg there.
- Was talking to someone online, and we confessed mutual feelings, but we lived on opposite sides of the country. I offered that we could date if either of us moved to the other’s coast as I preferred in-person dating, but despite that she’d call me hubby and other relationship-esque terms BEFORE we declared bf and gf. I didn’t want my boundaries more overstepped so I told her to stop and we haven’t talked since last year. I likely have a few more examples, but these are 4 that I came up with at the moment. Do any of these constitute fumbling? submitted by /u/Tasty-Bass8106
Originally posted by u/Tasty-Bass8106 on r/AskMen
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