Guys, if your significant other came to you and asked you to up your game a bit, what would the kind, thoughtful way of making that request without making you feel bad, or causing a hit to your confidence? For context, I’m feeling a little bored in bedroom— but not because of what happens IN the room… from the lack of what happens outside of it lol. We are both pretty straightforward people and when we wanted some intimate time, we’d just get right to it. I am more playful, and adventurous, so when I started feeling a bit bored I’d bring some different things to the table. But now I’m kinda tired of being the one that’s getting creative and would really like him to take control a bit and let me go along for the ride (no pun intended lol). What’s a good way to ask him for some spice? submitted by /u/perpetual_snackster
Originally posted by u/perpetual_snackster on r/AskMen
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