My boyfriend and I have been together for 9 months, and initially we used to have a lot of intimacy like at least once a week or twice a week, but now after the 6 month mark, he’s gotten much more laid back about intimacy. We both live with our parents so we can only have each other over when our parents aren’t home and his parents are really strict. My house is empty during the afternoon and he doesn’t even bother to ask his parents if he can go out, because he apparently knows that they’d say no. Now I know that both of us can masturbate individually and that would maybe make things better, but for some reason masturbation does not give me the same pleasure and he does. So I’m more frustrated and more desperate for intimacy than he is. Whenever we do get time he just tries to get it over with and makes me leave within an hour, he doesn’t dirty talk to me anymore, he likes my body and says he’s attracted to me, but I don’t really feel it anymore with his actions. Previously a week or two without intimacy would have him on his knees, but now it’s like he doesn’t care. It’s been over a month since we were last intimate and he’s very resigned about it. I don’t know what to do, please help me submitted by /u/ZucchiniNervous9204
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