Does jealousy mean a man actually cares? When a man shows no jealousy in a relationship, can that be a sign that he just doesn’t care that much? Or is it usually a sign that he’s secure/trusts you and doesn’t want the drama? Like he values his peace as well. Bc then, that would mean a man just expects you to respect the boundaries of the relationship like an adult. However, I’m seeing some people make content that mild jealousy is a sign that a man values you, doesn’t want to lose you, nor share you intimately, like a protective vibe. It just makes you feel more wanted, I suppose. So if a man doesn’t show any signs of jealousy over you it’s like he doesn’t care enough to be bothered. Also, from a man’s perspective, when a woman is jealous over you, does that make you feel like she cares more? Or is it annoying? Like, “please don’t flirt with the waitress” vs “don’t say hi to another woman”. submitted by /u/goneguurl
Originally posted by u/goneguurl on r/AskMen