So I have been in subs, where people were saying it is objectively better to be single than being in a relationship And people just enter a relationship because they fear being alone People don’t know how much better it is to be alone, like they thought when they were married that their spouse was a great support but after their divorce they findout their spouse might have been support in some ways but they, made their many problems worse. They say everyone will feel the same They say being single helps you grow, you only have to care about yourself, you don’t have to care about someone’s opinion, you have freedom, you don’t have to compromise on anything, you may not want same things you want 20 years later from your relationship as you want now, you don’t have to be committed with someone you made vows with 20 years ago, you grow better and develop faster, you don’t have to take time out for someone and you have all your time for yourself, all your money is yours, you got more time for hobbies( they say people who are in a relationship lead a boring life, where they don’t follow their hobbies) and etc. They say harmonal goods of a relationship fades away within 5 to 10 years and then it becomes hard, it is not worth it NOTE:- In the paragh above are NOT my views, I just read them and don’t agree with many submitted by /u/Eggsy7777
Originally posted by u/Eggsy7777 on r/AskMen