Original Reddit post

I’ve been talking to a girl from my school who’s honestly obsessed with me — long calls, constant check‑ins, opening up about personal stuff — and recently she told me she had a four‑month relationship where she liked the kisses but the guy often pushed for them when she didn’t want to, and there’s “one other secret” about that situation that isn’t sex. I’ve never kissed anyone, and now I’m stuck between liking her and feeling uncomfortable about the imbalance, especially since she says she wants to wait until marriage but some of her behavior makes me doubt how consistent she really is. I’m trying to figure out how men deal with feeling inexperienced, how to handle someone else’s past without overthinking it, and whether it’s normal to feel thrown off even when the person clearly likes you a lot. submitted by /u/gamer20088

Originally posted by u/gamer20088 on r/AskMen