Hi guys, This is my first time dating, and I’m a guy in my mid-20s (kind of an introvert). I really want to be emotionally available for her, but she talks a lot I mean, a whole lot. I’ve got a lot of things to take care of at the moment, i agree i didnt get a chance to talk to her for a whole day put i texted her and last night I couldn’t take it anymore. I yelled at her, saying I don’t want to hear anything about other people’s personal lives. I felt terrible about it and apologized to her, and now things are back. This morning, I overheard her talking to a friend, saying she likes being with me but that I don’t listen to her something along those lines. It made me sad because that’s not true at all. She’s not toxic she has past trauma. She supports my career, and I do the same for her. I can’t give up on her you can call it love or whatever but all I want is for her to take care of herself and stop worrying so much about other people’s lives. It’s getting too much for me and I can’t afford to waste time and all I need is a peace of mind for atleast a few months before I take care of my business situation. I like her but I’m thinking to walk away so she can find a right man who can provide her everything she deserves. For next 6 months I have to work almost day and night to pull my business out I’m so drained and I think I can’t afford to be in a relationship right now. submitted by /u/CurrentArugula7064
Originally posted by u/CurrentArugula7064 on r/AskMen
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In case anyone is in a similar situation, the right answer is: leave.
These two are fundamentally incompatible. If listening to your partner talk about their day drives you crazy, you shouldn’t be together. Simple as that.
