Hey guys, I’m a 30 year old 6 foot 3 tall white guy checking in here. I’ve been on a weight loss journey for the better part of a couple years, managing to lose just under 60 pounds in the process and still more to come in the future. In that time, I’ve been trying to get better at communication, confidence, and a general understanding of how to be a good example of a man, I guess. During the past couple of years, I’ve been struggling to get anywhere when it comes to the dating world. I haven’t been getting more or less matches (which is still zero), of the dates I have been going on, a couple a year, they end up either messaging me with a nice “thank you, but I don’t think we really vibe/ fit together” or the inevitable ghosting. I’ve thought that maybe since I’ve been getting healthier, skinnier, making an effort to take care of my outward appearance and inner self, it would maybe lead to better success, but it just has t come to fruition so far. I’m wondering if maybe I just need to come to terms with not being all that attractive? If you were in my situation at all, how did you cope/ come to terms with yourself about that? Any help or advice would be appreciated. Thanks! submitted by /u/MJC561
Originally posted by u/MJC561 on r/AskMen