Im a 24yo male and I consider myself to be living a good life and a lifestyle which I’ve built over the years and im very proud of that. I’ve progressed a lot career wise and have made quite a lot of friends throughout the years who I stay very close with. I have hobbies, and I really enjoy them. My friends see me as someone who loves himself so much and they presume I must have a very successful lovelife, and would frequently get something like ‘you can easily get any girl you want’ from the females I met. However my love life hasnt been progressive at all. I feel like inside im choosing to be alone bu choice but do feel a bit lonely when seeing cute couples being together, and sort of envying. I dont feel like I have this need to get anyone, but I really feel like the modern society, everyone has a gf/bf. I’ve not had any proper relationships, but have dated quite a few girls in my life and although things didnt work out, we still stay friends mostly. I’m seen to be very independent, but honestly I really would like to have someone who’d speak heart to heart with me and is able to understand whatever I have in mind and is able to accept my true self. I dont even bother to go up to girls and speak with them coz I dont feel necessary, and I heart tells me to wait for someone who can meet my emotional intelligence and can connect with me so deeply. I dont like things being on surface. Am i doing anything wrong and why is being single feels like a punishment? submitted by /u/Ok_Lavishness2660
Originally posted by u/Ok_Lavishness2660 on r/AskMen
