I have adhd and the sensory issues are hell, but I can’t get over the fact that every single girl seems to be okay with every kinda pants giving them a permanent wedgie. I feel like i’m suffering in yoga pants, jeans, sweats, and all underwear except those that make sure you don’t get a wedgie or give you more “coverage”. Some times I wear daily liners to make sure nothing bunches up. I recently found “knix” undies too and they make me feel more confident & comfortable. But still, no matter what kinda jeans/pants you get, it’s like the patriarchy has made it to make sure that it torments you, even while you’re working out. So, I’m genuinely asking for some advice on how to feel more comfortable in “outside clothes”. The only clothes I can stand are very loose and cozy pyjamas. How come men’s clothes are so comfortable and made for their convenience? While ours is made for our torture and their creepy “liking”? It makes me so incredibly sad & heart broken and I can’t stand feeling so damn uncomfortable at all times. I saw another post of an influencer literally showing you how to give yourself a permanent wedgie. Apparently it’s “life changing” to constantly suffer for men?! I know it sounds judgy…. And I’m sorry if it lands that way, but I’m actually trying to find a way to feel and look my best without having to be an awkward “outsider”. I already have adhd so RSD is preventing me from just going out in pyjamas and look like a homeless person all the time. If you have any recommendations for jeans, yoga pants, “outside” sweats, etc do let me know. Okie, that’s all. Be nice pls. Byee submitted by /u/uglycry-
Originally posted by u/uglycry- on r/AskGirls
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