I have a neurological condition due to an adverse reaction to a medication that would make sex different for me (from an SSRI, the term for this is PSSD). I haven’t ever had sex, so I’m not sure exactly how to describe what this would be like. I feel like I still am interested in being with someone, but my body will not respond the same way (won’t get wet, significantly less sensation with orgasm and in general). I feel like I would still be willing to have sex, because I would want the other person to be happy. Even though I would feel less physically, I’m still interested in the emotional aspect and would have some enjoyment from it. I don’t know how to approach this. I mean, straight up, what would you think if a girl told you this? Should I bring this up before sex, or wait to see how things go and then bring it up? Would most guys be ok with it if we’re still having sex, even if I don’t respond the way someone typically would? Would most guys know how they feel about it easily, or would it have to play out over time? submitted by /u/astroyjc
Originally posted by u/astroyjc on r/AskMen
