I’ve had sex with other people, both before and after my ex, and we’ve unfortunately been on/off and finally called it quits. However, every time we’ve broken up (I know intermittent reinforcement can play a role, but this has happened even after our initial breakup; genuinely believed it was over for good), I’d eventually miss the sex with him. I enjoyed sex with him and it felt pretty effortless and fun, no matter how long we’d been together for/how repetitive you’d expect it to become. Ironically, I’d say it’s pretty uncharacteristic of me to miss sex with an ex boyfriend (especially if I went onto experience sex with other people afterwards), so the whole thing’s messing with my head. Other people have been reciprocative, fun, and even shared characteristics of his that I valued when we got intimate, but it’s just something that I can’t touch on with him. I really want it to stop, it’s ridiculously stupid and I can’t get these thoughts out of my head submitted by /u/disposableacccountt
Originally posted by u/disposableacccountt on r/AskMen
