25y.o. male here few days ago was my birthday, I broke up with my ex 3 years ago I was single ever then, first I was ultimetly miserable because I wasn’t living I was just sitting in my bed whole days, 2 years I stayed in depression, last year I go to army when I come back something inside me has changed a little bit, I wanted to live, I turned things not best but for better, I lost 13 kg fat, going gym 5 times a week, I started to do my hobbies again, I used to do digital art, I started it again, I’m cycling around beachside few times a week, I change my spotify play list, I got a barista job, got rid of some credit card dept and got myself a better laptob, still applying for my actual job, a graphic designer position, I meet new people I made new friends who likes to hear about me, or do not judge what I do with my life, I started to share myself more and more, I got better clothes and selfcare, I love my life but there is a sorrow in my heart for being single, I have so much love to give it just blows inside me, I feel unchosen unworthy, I sometimes feel like girls wouldn’t want to hang out with me that causes me a little self doubt. submitted by /u/Finn__the_human_
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