I’m in a bit of a confusing situation and could use some perspective. There’s a guy I know we’re professionally close, but not really close on a personal level(Like we discuss a lot about our academics/ work and future plans but rarely about our family and personal lives). The thing is, whenever I’m not around him, I can’t stop thinking about him. I miss him…so much, I wonder about him, I feel desperate and it feels like I might have feelings for him. But when I actually talk to him or spend time with him, everything feels completely normal and friendly like there’s nothing romantic there at all. Now we’re both moving away for jobs, and the thought of potentially never seeing him again is really bothering me more than I expected. I do genuinely care about him and want the best for him, but I’m stuck wondering are these real feelings, or just attachment/idea of him? From a guy’s perspective, is it worth bringing this up to him before we go our separate ways, or is this something I should just let go? Appreciate any honest advice. submitted by /u/fingermonkey04
Originally posted by u/fingermonkey04 on r/AskMen