My husband is East Asian (I know male friendship norms vary culturally). He has a best friend, also married with kids, and they are extremely close. Very physically affectionate whenever they meet they hug also hair ruffling, etc. They’ve also taken two solo trips together. He says the guy is “like a little brother” and I’m the one making it weird. I genuinely don’t think he would ever cheat. That’s not my fear. My fear is more like emotional (a bit of possessiveness too). I also admit I struggle with the fact that someone else gets to see his playful, kind side so much. I feel like I’m sharing him in a way that goes beyond normal friendship. So: · At what point does a close friendship become too close between men? · Am I overreacting ? · How would you want your wife to bring this up if she felt this way? submitted by /u/Ok-Promise-7348
Originally posted by u/Ok-Promise-7348 on r/AskMen
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