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M26. Never been in a relationship, though I’ve had many opportunities. I’m sure this has been asked before, but basically I’m conventionally attractive, but then a lot of the time I just don’t know how to keep the interest going? Like I wonder if I’m not interested enough in her or if my heads not in the game enough. This was an issue for me back in high school too, I had all kinds of girls interested in me at first, and I enjoyed surface level flirting, but when it became obvious they wanted to push it further (to anyone else, sometimes I wouldn’t get a hint lmao) I either didn’t get it or didn’t know how to progress it further, like there’s this hard limiter I have where I just can’t progress further mentally. I just never had getting in a girl’s pants as my first priority. I wonder if I have some hidden insecurity I don’t know about. Would love some advice from anyone who gets what I mean or can relate. submitted by /u/Auroraborosaurus

Originally posted by u/Auroraborosaurus on r/AskMen