So my friends with benefits and I have been a really positive mutual understanding of what his is, and followed all boundaries, etc. But just yesterday, he wasn’t really doing anything before we had sex foreplay wise, and just like chatted with me and was very deadpan and not cheeky like normal, and the moment that we actually started having sex he stuck to missionary and only missionary and didn’t do any of the fun stuff. We normally do when we’re in bed like you know the throwing around and the hot like slapping stuff and it’s just very standard stuff? I just don’t know if maybe I’m thinking too much about this cause it was one time but I just thought it was so different even in energy and I want to know if maybe this is his way of slowly breaking it off with me or do you guys actually get lazy like this in bed just because they think that a women will stick around? Was he just tired maybe??? submitted by /u/fem_starr
Originally posted by u/fem_starr on r/AskMen