Original Reddit post

Hey guys, I had a date today and things escalated. We ended up sleeping together. But for some reason, I just couldn’t finish, even after a while. What confuses me is that I was really attracted to her – both physically and overall. I still think she’s great and I definitely want to see her again, so it’s not like I wasn’t into it at all. Another thing is that she seemed very into it as well, which actually made things a bit more difficult at times. So now I’m just confused what the reason could be. Could it be because I was nervous or in my head too much? Or maybe something physical? I even wondered if things like allergies or being tired could play a role, but that sounds kind of random. Has anyone experienced this before? What are common reasons for this? submitted by /u/flotheg

Originally posted by u/flotheg on r/AskMen