Hey there, so the following problem: Me M27 and her F31 are extremely close. She pretty much acts like an GF, at least that’s how everyone around us sees us. Male and Female friends, from mit 20s to mid 30s seeing us as a couple. We pretty much talk daily for hours and do something together like watching movies and video chat. So while some stuff happened that feels like it crosses the line form the average friendship, nothing “couple-thingy” happened between us. The closest to that would be her telling me “I’m the exception for many things” and an invite for “cuddling” months ago. that’s it. Friends at this point tell me I’m blind since she’s always around me and that we “love each other we just don’t know it” Honestly? I know she likes me but I don’t think she wants me. I honestly think she wants someone like me, but just not me. (If that makes sense) it honestly makes me extremely sad, since I actually had feelings but I can’t just imagine that she feels “more”. so what are some signs that she doesn’t just sees me as a place holder? submitted by /u/LuluzuzuVT
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