My GF and I are both 20, and I’m a college athlete. I train a lot, my libido is really high, and I have physical needs. The problem is we’re both super busy, so we only get to see each other about once a week. When we do have sex, I usually have way more stamina and energy than she does. She gets tired pretty fast, and I always respect that and never push, but I often end up feeling unsatisfied and kinda disappointed afterward. That makes me feel guilty because I know she’s not doing anything wrong but I still want to have sex with her. If we saw each other more often, I don’t think this would bother me as much. But since intimacy is already rare, the mismatch feels more noticeable and I don’t know how to deal with it without building resentment or making her feel bad. submitted by /u/torukzan
Originally posted by u/torukzan on r/AskMen