Original Reddit post

I’m 22 and I’ve graduated from college. I’ve moved to Phoenix for work. Reflecting back on my time in college I would do a lot of walking just to get anywhere (dorm, class or work) and would see lots of people my age. Now my routine is drive to work and drive home. Sometimes I go to the gym at my apartment or go grocery shopping. I also started going to Pilates and joined a run club and play pickle ball. Sometimes I go to coffee shops when I work remote. Where I live seems to have a lot of older people with kids that are in high school or younger. I’m just struggling to create opportunities where I can meet and talk to women I’m attracted and are around my age. Pickle ball and run club has helped me make friends and I got one date from pickle ball. It feels a harder to meet women at Pilates given it’s more of a woman’s space and I don’t want to make anyone uncomfortable or make it awkward. What can I do to meet more women? Do I have to go to Tempe or something? I haven’t had any luck on dating apps and I don’t really like drinking. I’m open to suggestions of places/activities to go to and how to spark up conversations. submitted by /u/GHOST64__

Originally posted by u/GHOST64__ on r/AskMen