I hit porn and have no problem suppressing any urge to horn it but when it comes to really life I just can’t stop noticing these women man they are beautiful asf. I’m not looking at them but they are in my peripheral vision and my just can’t help but notice shuttle things like the color of hair or the texture of it. I make a serious to avoid looking at them at any cost, but then there’s these women that notice that I’m not giving them even fractional attention so they’ll position themselves in front of me and do weird just like swaying side to side or pulling their pants up and it’s all just so fucking lusty. It’s like the devil himself has sent them after me. Even then I don’t budge I don’t look but you know if they’re doing stuff in front of I’ll start thinking about what they are doing and why they are doing it and I don’t want to do that. For context we stand around a table for demos in my college and every damn one of these girls will sneak her way into my pov and do smth or keep trying to make eye contact every couple of seconds. It’s horrible to the point where I’ll leave to go the bathroom so I can change where I’m standing and then a different girl will start doing some shit. Now by no means am I an attractive guy I’m quite mid I’d say like a 6.5 if I make an effort. But it’s the fact that I don’t give them attention they are begging for it and the last thing I want to do is give in. Some of yall will prolly say shit like go have fun but I’m really tryna lock in right now I’ve been building skills and the last thing I need is distractions cause I’ve been building skills and doing a good job at cutting everything out: video games, weed, social media, gooning. How do you guys keep yourselves from thinking or what can you do in my situation. Any help would greatly appreciated. submitted by /u/Narrow_Bed2444
Originally posted by u/Narrow_Bed2444 on r/AskMen