I swear, you can’t find a man these days who isn’t following 200+ women on Instagram (or wherever), who are those “Instagram baddies.” Following is one thing, but liking every single post? That’s just weird to me. Why can’t y’all just…not? And just to be clear, no, I’m not doing the same on my end. I don’t follow male influencers or shirtless guys, I’m not seeking out thirst traps, and I’m not liking that kind of content. It’s not because I don’t find people attractive, of course I do, but to me, it’s about respect. I don’t ever want the person I’m with to question me or feel like I’m entertaining other people publicly. So I choose not to. There’s a difference between noticing someone is attractive and actively engaging with their content for everyone to see on a public social media. Why don’t men think this through? And let’s not even talk about the awkward DMs submitted by /u/DaBrown
Originally posted by u/DaBrown on r/AskMen