so i (19) like my girlfriends (20) family, minus the two teens, one is a 13f and the other a 14m. the girl is extremely loud, hyper and careless, talks a mile a minute and screams while running around the house like she’s a toddler, she leaves her messes (clothes, dishes, etc.) everywhere, flushes feminine products down the toilet and clogs it, eats other people’s food and uses other people’s stuff. she’s also extremely spoiled (has legitimately anything you can think of) and just generally kind of annoying. on the other hand, the 14m is kind of annoying in a different way, stereotypical trying to act “nonchalant” and cool. he makes fun of me for random shit when we’re not at all close like that - especially around his friends or other family members, thinks he’s great at everything he does, etc. he takes things that aren’t his, eats other people’s food, doesn’t shower, lays around all day, plays video games all the time, etc. he’s also a lot taller than me (he’s over 6’ and grown a lot since we first met) and thinks it’s like funny or intimidating to get up literally a foot away from me everytime he’s around me (which i HATE). i have gotten to the point where i dread family situations because i know they’ll be there. they bother the piss out of me. i don’t really get along with either of them and ignore them as much as i can, but her family isn’t that big and i’ll have to be around them the rest of her life. what do i do about this? i feel like a dick and i know my girlfriend will be upset if i talk to her about this, especially if i don’t approach it in the right way. submitted by /u/Cute_Wheel_9429
Originally posted by u/Cute_Wheel_9429 on r/AskMen
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