What if your partner is a livestreamer or content creator, and part of her work involves interacting with gifters and spenders—some of whom can be flirty or provide “extra attention” in exchange for gifts or support? At first, she says “it’s just work” and you want to trust her. But as time goes on, you notice the banter is becoming a bit too personal; sometimes there are even private chats, and it feels like there’s an unspoken exchange happening (attention for gifts). As a guy, how do you handle that without coming off as controlling? Do you set clear boundaries to protect your self-respect, or do you trust her completely to manage it since it’s part of her job? Where do you personally draw the line between trusting your partner and knowing when something already feels off? submitted by /u/Cultural-Ball4700
Originally posted by u/Cultural-Ball4700 on r/AskMen