So basically I (20M) am in this club and I’ve really noticed one of the event coordinators for the club is a girl (20F) I really like. I would like to get to know her a bit better. Now I do know her Instagram and everything but in all the meetings I went, she was never there, so I couldn’t meet her. The one meeting I couldn’t go to, she comes there and was there. Thing is the club is done since the school year for the college is done. Now since I do have her Instagram, should I first add her on there and then try to somehow find a reason to talk and maybe be friends with her while seeing how we vibe? Thing is I have no chance of meeting and creating that in person moment now, so I’m really looking for how to kinda create a moment and maybe what to talk about. She’s in a different program of study from mine and really I need ideas of how to get a chance to talk to her and maybe become friends. Should I request her on Instagram and if she accepts and follows back, what type of topic should I have to get some talks going and all? submitted by /u/Temporary-Lock-7293
Originally posted by u/Temporary-Lock-7293 on r/AskMen