I always wondered that but I didn’t imagine much would change. I had a guy friend with which I talked once in a while, didn’t see him often but we considered each other friends. He had given me advice, he had told me he’d be there for me if I needed to talk. We had this friendship for almost 3 years. Last December we started a chat sending voice messages to each other and that lasted until early February. Then he suddenly left me on delivered for two weeks but I sent him happy birthday exactly after these two weeks, he answered and told me he’s really pressured with his job. Turns out he got himself a girlfriend and that’s why he cut all communication. Didn’t even send me a message for my name day a few days ago and he always was the first to do so. So I understand he doesn’t wanna continue talking with me. What hurts most is how sudden all this was and the fact that he wasn’t honest with me, just telling me he’s in a relationship and won’t have much time to keep talking would be enough. Or that lately a lot has been going on and he has little time. But all he did was lie and throw away everything. What kind of bond was that? He’s the one that had once told be he appreciated my honesty. I wonder how men generally feel about their girl friends when they get in a relationship so if you could share your opinion it’d be appreciated. Thanks in advance. submitted by /u/VisualDesigner1117
Originally posted by u/VisualDesigner1117 on r/AskMen