I’ve (F30) been talking to a guy (M25) recently, not officially dating yet. He was sick for a few days, and after he recovered, he told me that he accidentally wet the bed and also had a bowel accident while sleeping. He mentioned it in a joking way and didn’t seem that embarrassed, and even said he had to wash the bedsheets and everything. I was honestly caught off guard because we’re still in the early “talking stage” and not that close yet. I’m trying to understand if this is just being open and comfortable, or if it crosses a boundary in terms of oversharing too soon. Curious how others see this. What kind of personal things feel okay to share early on, and what feels like too much? submitted by /u/PretendBasket9362
Originally posted by u/PretendBasket9362 on r/AskMen