To people of Reddit I know this question has probably been asked a lot, but I’d really appreciate your thoughts and advice. I’ve (31F) had a FWB for almost a year now. From the beginning, we both agreed it would stay that way no expectations. We usually see each other about twice a month, but when we do, we spend the whole weekend together. We go on dinner dates, grab drinks, walk around the city the next day, hit arcades, hang out in cafés, or check out new spots. It’s kind of become our routine. Even when we’re not together, we message every single day 😅 But over the past couple of months, things have felt a little different. A few times, he’s said things like, “If we met in college, you could’ve locked me down for a lifetime.” We also had our first argument recently. Then the last time we were together, we were just lying in bed, cuddling, and he said, “I was so happy seeing you again” and “I love spending time with you.” I didn’t really know how to respond because we’ve never revisited our setup since the beginning. I’ve always had my guard up. I’m warm with him, but I’m still protective of myself. I do genuinely like him as a person, but I also don’t want to dismiss him or hurt him. At the same time, what we have right now our connection, the chemistry, both emotionally and physically is something I don’t want to mess up. For context, we are exclusive FWB. Is this normal? More importantly… what should I do? submitted by /u/Vanyaaaa___
Originally posted by u/Vanyaaaa___ on r/AskMen
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