My wife and I started dating back in 2021. We eloped in 2025 and will host a celebration wedding in 2026, I will be honest , I am not certified at diagnosing at all what so ever but I really don’t know how to approach this or even if I’m right at our directions to help. My wife (when I first started dating her) had a history of depression. I always did my best to support her. 4 years later we had moved across the country (grad school for her) lost her pet to age (I will always love her too) and moved back to her antic state. Outside of this, she is super fucking sweet and nice. When she drinks at some point I feel like a switch flips in her brain and she becomes so malicious and mean. She blames me for things that aren’t relevant or I wasn’t even in her life for. It’s weird because we could have a fun drunk conversation and then she just flips. I don’t know how to even approach mental health with her or even self reflection. Any and all advice is appreciated! I submitted by /u/Rsingh916
Originally posted by u/Rsingh916 on r/AskMen
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