how often do men in relationships talk about what bothers them? and do u share everything that bothers u? or do u bottle some stuff and share the others? the thing is my bf is very … chill…? he’s never bothered, never off, never brings things to talk about in the relationship me on the other side, I get sensitive about things much more often. I feel off, and go into a bad mood where I don’t communicate as much, he understands something is wrong and tries to ask me what’s off…I’m working on my part to be better at commutation but his coldness is not helping… we have been in this cycle for months now… I just don’t understand how everything is ok for him and he never gets mad or sensitive about certain moments… like for example I would be off cuz of something he said while we are with friends, or cuz he didn’t bring flowers on valentines, or the way I felt ignored on a random Sunday… yes I know I get emotional over the little things and they accumulate and sit on my chest until I get gloomy and non responsive… so my question for men is, how often do you share negative feelings in a relationship? or is it based on how much you care about a relationship that you bring out negative feelings or not? submitted by /u/babynoodles123
Originally posted by u/babynoodles123 on r/AskMen
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