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I 30M matched with a girl 25F on a dating app after which we constantly stayed in touch and 2 weeks in she’s somehow diagnosed with tumor(with nothing to prove it) plays cold and only shows affection when I spend any money or take her out. 4 weeks in she randomly asks if I wanna hang out soon and then texts that she needs me transfer her like $50 to buy something online. After I said no, she responded very politely if I wanna reschedule it to another day?. $50 is not a big deal but her vibe is pretty sketchy at this point. I’m a traditional guy and like to spoil my girl but I feel like I’m only loved when providing something for her although she constantly lovebombs me and says all the stuff I wanna hear. I wanna end it but it makes me feel bad and guilty somehow. any advice would be appreciated. EDIT: Thanks for the input guys, I know where this was heading but wanted to play along till she blatantly asks me for money. Just so you all know,we went out a couple times in person and it wasn’t just online. submitted by /u/Impossible_Prune4283

Originally posted by u/Impossible_Prune4283 on r/AskMen