Before you throw stones at me, read beyond the title. I have at times dated 2-3 women at the same time. The experience has been better than expected, albeit the steep expenses (cost of the doing business). I don’t tell them but give them enough hints to suspect the existence of others. If they ask, I am evasive. This triggers in them the “competition mode” and each gives me the best sex I could expect, given their bed skills. On the contrary when I have dated 1 girl at a time, the sex quality and intensity went downhill very quickly. Especially if she feels or knows she’s the only one I’m seeing. The few I have settled for for a while (a few months or even years) have usually been the one I liked the most in my 2-3 girls rotations. In the coming 2 years I want to have one LT partner and I’m going to run my well oiled system even harder and would add a twist: the pull - push. Instead of picking the one I like the most, I’d take the one who likes me the most. My way of testing would be subtly pull away and see which one will push the hardest to get the LT relationship. submitted by /u/tommy7814
Originally posted by u/tommy7814 on r/AskMen
