Same as above. So granted I haven’t done a ton of dating, BUT I do know I don’t want a man who’s had sex with several women. I’ve talked to people online about that, asking similar questions like this and I’ve been told I’m selfish, that I’m insecure to care & simply jealous I don’t have as much experience. I’ve also been told by some of my friends it’s an offensive question to ask someone that question. To me it’s not that I am jealous over the experience, it just makes me wildly uncomfortable to know someone I’m interested in has slept around. I’ve also been told especially today that, looking for a man who hasn’t slept around is going to be impossible. Thoughts…? Does anyone think it’s selfish to want that or just unrealistic? Thank you! submitted by /u/Melodic_Explorer8
Originally posted by u/Melodic_Explorer8 on r/AskMen