So I’ve been friends with this guy for about a year and I think he’s chill for the most part. We get along pretty well and have similar interests. However, in the past couple of months, there was been several instances where he raises his voice at me. They are usually over the stupidest most simple things. We work together and most of the these incidents happen there. Today for example he raised his voice and gave me the worst attitude because I picked up a box he put on the floor and placed it somewhere where he didn’t want it to be and said “why would you do that, you think I put the box on the floor just for fun?!”. It made me feel like absolute crap and he also raised his voice in front of our manager. I’ve already told him in the past that I don’t appreciate him raising his voice and me and he’s apologized then but he keeps on doing it which makes me Think he’s not actually sorry about the way he treats me. He doesn’t only do this to me though from what I’ve noticed but to other coworkers and even his own girlfriend but she doesn’t seem to care about and just puts up with it. Other people have called him out on his attitude problem and the way he talks to others but he doesn’t seem to care. He is autistic and because of it he’s like things a certain way and it bothers him when people mess up that way he does things so that’s why he gets triggered and tends to raise his voice, according to him. I don’t know if him having autism justifies the way he treats me and others but I’ve had it. I’ve already blocked his number (at least for now) and I don’t know if I should completely drop him cause I can’t anymore with someone constantly treating me like crap. What do you think I should do? submitted by /u/itsananotanna
Originally posted by u/itsananotanna on r/AskGirls
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