hi, I 18f am going to college and am terrified to loose my virginity. Like not just nervous but scared. I have never had a boyfriend but I’d like to start dating and I know that eventually I will have to loose my virginity. It’s not that I don’t want to, it’s just that i am scared out of my mind, it sounds and looks from what I’ve been shown, kinda unnatural and insanely painful. I’ve only tried to put a tampon in once and it hurt and i stopped because I was too scared. I’ve obviously never masturbated because again that seems impossible and terrifying. Not to be crass but even anal and oral sex seem tame compared to traditional methods, but that’s probably just because I don’t understand and am scared. Mind you I have had like no sex ed. Please help. Any advice from WOMEN would be amazing!! (if you are a male please leave me the hell alone I need genuine help which you will not be able to provide) I am desperate and in case you haven’t noticed: scared. submitted by /u/daydreaming_girl07
Originally posted by u/daydreaming_girl07 on r/AskGirls
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