I’m aware this is a generalization, but really am looking for some ideas and examples of what one can do. For context, im (30f) talking with this guy (32f) who totally is into me (he says it in many different ways many times a day, it’s very sweet) and im very aware of his ADHD/autism/sensitivities, as i have them myself. Like he said he was too nervous to “make moves” so hes glad that i was the one who initiated — we held hands. I don’t mind initiating at all, i kind of prefer it, but i guess me knowing his sensitivities and such, has me feeling cautious around him, like in the sense of coming on too strong, I don’t want to do that. But we’ve hung out 4 times and all we’ve done is hold hands & long hugs. Which im totally fine with the slowness, it’s nice actually. But I know he can get a li’l nervous around me just because it’s probably just exciting for him, as it is for me! But I seem to keep a calm approach which I assume is nice to him. He’s opened up quite a bit emotionally too which I’m honestly proud of him for, hard to tell personal stuff to someone you just met let alone someone you may want a future with! Any specific things I can do to ease any of his nervousness? submitted by /u/asianstyleicecream
Originally posted by u/asianstyleicecream on r/AskMen